Ah Chastity! Controlling one’s mind is a particular pleasure for me, but I also value controlling the body as well. Of course being in charge of both can be a particularly challenging, albeit rewarding, conquest.
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I saw a movie tonight that I thought might be interesting because it is written and directed by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, (the youngest from the 90s sit com Third Rock From the Sun about a “gaggle”? of aliens landed on Earth), whose work I have admired since that wacky sit com was on the air. But […]
Hello My Dear Erotic Explorers! October and November are going to be INTENSE. So instead of bludgeoning you with details, (we’ll do that another way, shall we?), let me give you a synopsis of items to add to your calendar: Thurs Oct 10th A Touch of Kink: Bondassage Good Vibrations, Polk St http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=New-Polk-Good-Vibes-Events Tickets! http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/471607 Fri […]
[html5mp3small:20312] The supperclub Bondage dinner is an evening of fine dining, performance art, and saucy, playful sensuality. Artful, sexy aerialists, opera divas, live bondage riggers, and gender-bending burlesque dancers plus Supperclub’s fabulous 4-course gourmet dinner. Suspension bondage artists include Tom Foolery and Jessi K. Fire play with Eva Lucien and you willl ~never~ believe where Narcissister is […]
Sexploration with Monika – What Do You Want? Getting the Kinks Out with Mistress Minax [html5mp3small:20311] What do you really want? If someone gave you the opportunity to really ask for your erotic or experiential desires, what would you ask for? What kind of touch, healing, sensation or stimulation? Of course, even though you paid […]
Hey folks! My name is KL Joy, and I’m going to write a little today about how to negotiate a scene with a potential play partner. Now, I’m not talking about relationships; I’m talking about that first sexy time you see someone in a club and want to get some of their style going on. […]
As a professional coach who has worked with hundreds of people over the years, one question keeps recurring: “How could I ever tell my (current/future), partner of my desires? S/he would never understand.” I see and understand the dilemma. Societally, we simply do not talk about sex the way we might food, clothing, or reading […]
What started as a Facebook post now has become a full fledged entry for me as I continue the dialogue around the horrors of what happened with those young women in Cleveland. I have been ruminating for days. Honestly, I am still speechless. I want to flee from my own profession in order not to […]
May 19, 2013 3:00 PM Asking for what you want is hard. Getting what you want is harder. Accepting and rolling with it when you do not get what you want is even harder still. How do we get what we want in scene and give our partner what they want so everybody wins?
An often overlooked and misunderstood topic, this essay gives a thoughtful nudge to look a bit more closely at BDSM and Kink Relationships.