Can BDSM Help a Relationship?
Can BDSM help a relationship? I’d like to think so. Whether the relationship is new and you’re exploring or it’s mature and you are searching…
Five Sexy Kinky Gift Ideas!
Who doesn’t love a sexy gift? Whatever the reason, be it holiday, birthday, or just because, sexy gifts can bring laughter, joy, pleasure, intimacy, knowledge…
Peg Your Heart Out and Feel it Too!
Walking into the lobby of Catalystcon West 2014, I wondered what my purpose was being there. Sure, I had a panel wherein we would discuss…
Some Thoughts on Dominance and Submission
As a devoted Dominatrix, I think about and practice Dominant/submissive relationships. The conflux of dominance and submission is ambiguous at best: how about control and…
No Pain, No Gain? Understanding Erotic and Non-Erotic Pain
Today I went to see my Physical Therapist for a Rotator Cuff injury rehab session. After we spent some time getting acquainted and starting the…
Searching For Love: Three Ways to Find a Kinky Partner
Several years ago, I was dining with an acquaintance who was a therapist. Chatting casually with mutual interest, midway through the meal she puts down…