Help and Change: Let Me Help You Change?
As a professional coach who has worked with hundreds of people over the years, one question keeps recurring: “How could I ever tell my (current/future),…
Consent and Fantasy: Ruminations on Amanda Berry et al
What started as a Facebook post now has become a full fledged entry for me as I continue the dialogue around the horrors of what…
Quandary: Negotiating and Troubleshooting Your Scenes
May 19, 2013 3:00 PM Asking for what you want is hard. Getting what you want is harder. Accepting and rolling with it when you…
Power Dynamics in BDSM/Kink Relationships
An often overlooked and misunderstood topic, this essay gives a thoughtful nudge to look a bit more closely at BDSM and Kink Relationships.
An Education in Violation Play – Thursday, May 16th
Violation or “Rape” Play can be a highly sensitive subject. Come learn more about the whys and hows in a safe and welcoming environment! Thursday…
Erotic Dominance Intensive with Cleo DuBois
For Women: April 8th and 9th San Francisco Click HERE for details!
Why It’s so Frustrating to Educate Kink and BDSM
This is quite possibly the best essay I’ve ever read arguing for more education of the writers who wish to condemn kink and BDSM.
Let’s talk about Orgasm!
Mary Roach is a hilarious and provocative writer. I love her book “Stiff” on the history of the cadaver, and of course “Boink” has become…
Erotic Dominance Intensive for Men with Cleo DuBois
March 9th and 10th San Francisco Click HERE for details!
The Doctor Is In! – Medical Play from Fantasy to Heavy Edge with Doctor’ Eve.
Join “Doctor” Eve as she provides a broad introduction to this fantastic form of play. Medical play is wonderfully suited to expressing Dominance and submission,…