Let’s talk about Orgasm!

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Mary Roach is a hilarious and provocative writer. I love her book “Stiff” on the history of the cadaver, and of course “Boink” has become the sexpert’s staple. Read more

Out With the Old and In With the New? Our Old Friend Change.

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True life is lived when tiny changes occur.
Leo Tolstoy

Here we are, those wild and wacky Gregorian Calendar users, about to embark upon another “new” year – full of hope for change – and possibly full of new year resolutions about our health, happiness, and yes, maybe even our sex lives. Read more

My Old Friend Humanstic Sex Therapy

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I have been agonizing over this controversy for years. To what extent do sex coaches practice “hands on” work and to what extent do we remain “hands off”? It’s been my practice to utilize each, depending on the circumstance, person, and their immediate needs. Read more

What’s your Sexual Personality Type?

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Whats your Meyers Briggs Type Indicator and How does it Affect Your Sexuality

I am fascinated by Human Behavior, especially with regard to how certain personality types interact with others and in particular how they play out relationally and sexually. The Meyers Brigg standard of testing is quite popular and widely regarded. I, of course, take everything with a grain of salt, but it’s always good to be informed. Go here for more details on MBTI .

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Parenting and Sex Positivity: Kudos to Airial Clark

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Although I am not a parent, I know many of you are. I also realize how difficult it must be to make decisions around your sexuality and parenting: How do they co-exist?

Airial Clark addresses this issue and more, brava!

Exciting In Depth Interview with Me by Monika from Sexploration With Monika

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Usually Monika, from Sexploration with Monika, and I have a brief chat about an upcoming or current event. I really love this in depth interview because I get to speak a bit more about my work, how it’s evolving and the intersections of Read more

July 10th – “You’re Going to Need an Enema for That! – Many Ways of Enema Play”

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Tuesday, July 10 2012 From 8:00pm to 10:00pm

Presented by Eve Minax

Location: SF Citadel, 181 Eddy Street, San Francisco
Entry: $20
Dress: Casual

For some of us, enemas are a major component of our play and even our lives, but many of us struggle to creatively incorporate enemas into a greater variety of scenes. The Medical Enema is an obvious favorite, and “Dr” Eve loves administering them, but how does one cohesively integrate an enema with other types of scenes? Age play, domestic discipline, classic slave training, animal play, tantric massage, mummification and meditative journeys… these scenes deserve enemas too! This class will develop your understanding of four modus operandi — punishment, facilitation, fetish, and health — which will allow you to confidently deploy enemas in almost any scenario. Learn how to utilize feelings of embarrassment and humiliation, as well as a broader range of emotional reactions and associations. Make your enemas work for you and the scene you are creating. Bring any ideas, questions or concerns, and we will discuss (and probably demonstrate) the many varieties of enema play!
Eve Minax is a renowned kink presenter and pleasure artist who delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. She is a lifestyle and professional Domina and acts as the Lead Staff Instructor for the Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts. She teaches at a variety of events including DomCon Atlanta and LA, IMsL, Thunder in the Mountains, Efest, and KinkFest. Locally, she presents classes at the SF Citadel, Edges, Stormy Leather, and Good Vibrations and elsewhere in her travels. Minax is a former coordinator for CineKink: Chicago, and the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M Road show. She writes a regular column for Carnal Nation, works often with SeriousBondage.com, and has been pioneering a new genre of pairing kinky sex with food: Sexcipes. Minax maintains a loving and extended leather family throughout the world.

Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey?

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I love thinking in grey, monochromes, various colors…black and white has simply never cut it for me. That’s why I liked the title “Fifty Shades of Grey. Read more

A Serious Publication on Sex Work

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but of course it’s based out of the Netherlands, lol…

Research for Sex Work is a publication intended for sex workers, activists, health workers, researchers, NGO staff and others. Read more