Can BDSM Help a Relationship?
Can BDSM help a relationship? I’d like to think so. Whether the relationship is new and you’re exploring or it’s mature and you are searching…
How Have Sexual Fetishes Changed Over Time?
I was recently asked this question and here’s the synopsis of my take…happy to have your input! First of all, it is important to establish…
Searching For Love: Three Ways to Find a Kinky Partner
Several years ago, I was dining with an acquaintance who was a therapist. Chatting casually with mutual interest, midway through the meal she puts down…
Talking About Your Desires With Your Partner: How?
One of the most frequent topics I have with people is HOW to talk about their sexual desires, especially “kinky” ones with their partners. It’s…
Oops, I Forgot My Safeword!
In the realm of BDSM and kink play, safe, sane and consensual rests as the buzz phrase to encourage newcomers to join (we’re safe!), illicit…