What Does a Dominatrix Look Like?
A lot of people are talking about the Netflix show about a young Dominatrix. So far, I’d say it’s the equivalent of a waitress putting…
Healing Through BDSM
How does BDSM facilitate personal growth? If you’ve been following my writing over the years, you may have learned that I live with transgenerational trauma…
Searching For Love: Three Ways to Find a Kinky Partner
Several years ago, I was dining with an acquaintance who was a therapist. Chatting casually with mutual interest, midway through the meal she puts down…